Make the Love You Want

Introduction to Make the Love You Want

Welcome to Make the Love You Want!

How to Use the Course

Morning Practices

Developing a Self-Pleasure Practice

What is the Erotic and Why is it Important?

What is Eroticism and Why is it Important?

The Anatomy of Eroticism

Fears and Desires

Four Pillars of Eroticism

Fantasy vs. Reality

Your Unique Erotic Style

Attuning to Your Body Wisdom

Sensations: Language of the Body

Emotions: Energy in Motion

Boundary Mapping

Pleasure Mapping

Identifying a Trauma Response

Understanding Your Past

Messages from Others: Family, Community, Society, and Media

Messages from Within: Sensations, Emotions, Thoughts

Impacts of Trauma on the Body, Nervous System, and Sexuality

Horse and Rider

Discovering Your Unique Erotic Style

Erotic Blueprints

Core Erotic Theme

Gas Pedal and Brakes

One Ring: Expectancy, Eagerness, Enjoyment

Revisiting Your Self-Pleasure Practice

Your Unique Erotic Style

Conscious Communication

Empowered Communication Techniques

Wheel of Consent

Active and Passive Consent

Speaking Your Desires

Offering Boundaries Lovingly

RBDSM Conversations

Bringing Sexy Feedback

Moving Into Your Ideal Future

Types of Love and Intimacy

Relationship Design

Devoting to Your Self-Pleasure Practice

Identifying a Trauma Response